Money makes the world go but is money the singular most important thing in this world? Relationships are much more important now that ever. The beginning of any relationship can be a little tricky. Guys aren’t good at guessing what women think or want. You might view it as insensitivity and this could lead to avoidable arguments.
A healthy relationship
Here are ten guidelines to smooth the road with your new beau.
- Limit your PDA (public display of affection) to a minimum. Such display of love and affection in front of total strangers or even known people is often not appreciated. This behavior may also be sometimes regarded as an attempt to hide lack of intimacy in the relationship.
- Have a life of your own. Irrespective of the fact that you are in a loving relationship, please do not let go f your normal routine of your previously single life. Do not be a cling film to him. Have your own set of friends and keep aside some activity which you can indulge in when your man is not around.
- Keep him posted. This doesn’t mean that you download all the mundane details of your life. But keep him informed of all your plans and activities especially when you are interacting with members of the opposite sex. This will make him realize that you are clean from your heart incase your man is one of those jealous types.
- Do not spy on him. Make sure that you tell him from the start of the relationship that trust and loyalty is paramount to you and you will not compromise on that. Even you should maintain this rule. Unless and until you are sure of something ‘fishy’ do not become the female ‘James Bond’ and keep prying through his cupboard, wallet or mobile.
- Do not gossip. A man hates when you keep bad mouthing others. This would make him think twice about continuing the relationship. A person who bad mouths others may even bad mouth him!!! If you have a grudge against someone then just tell him the bare facts, don’t gossip.
- Respect him. Do not praise others or compare your man to someone else’s. Respect him for what he is, don’t expect him to change and be someone else. If you want him to change inspire him but do not command him to do so. How would you feel if he does the same to you? Love him for what he is.
- Be intelligent and a fun person. Men hate women who are dumb and do not have a mind of their own. Your man should be able to hold conversations with your man. Your man should value your opinions and recognize you as a person who is more than just a fashionable chica.
- Spend quality time. Talking on the phone or even texting each other is not a solution. This is because you could be doing something else in that time. The key is to spend some quality time with your man. Be it as short as 15-20 mins but make sure you do that at least once a week. Show him how much you care and that his presence is valued in your life. This will keep both of you bonded to each other in a better fashion.
- Don’t be a fighter cock. Don’t start fighting on small petty issues. So what if he is looking at a beautiful girl. We all admire beauty around us. Even he is no exception. If you stop him now he will do it behind your back. Relationship should be free of such issues. Have faith on each other.
- Do not be a mind reader. Do not read too much into his silence. He could be silent for a variety of reasons. Men do not discuss issues unlike women. They tend to contemplate and try to find a solution. Do not nag him. Men hate nagging women.
Follow these simple rules and trust your man. your relationship will surely become the most satisfying relationships of your life.
